Establishing Boundaries
Personal Growth is the Gateway to Your Potential🏋️
We are naturally attracted to people with firm and clear boundaries, and we can't help but treat them with respect. What are boundaries and how do they work in a person's life?
A boundary is like a moat around a castle. It's designed to protect you from unfriendly attackers. To put it simply, a boundary is something that no one may do to you or around you.
Confident and secure people already have boundaries in place, even if they aren't aware of them. For example, most people are firm about this. "People can't hit me." or "People can't yell at me."
Boundaries are the key to building character traits like discipline, integrity and character. People like being around individuals with genuine integrity. Boundaries are about protecting yourself from others who would attempt to disrespect you.
Boundaries are walls that keep potential intruders out. If you don't have sufficient boundaries in place, people will disrespect you, misuse or abuse you if they sense you have a weak disposition.
When you have boundaries in place, people instinctively sense them and they want go there. It's a powerful new aura that you will be projecting.
Strong boundaries enables us to become repellant to attackers. But we are naturally attracted to the people we like and respect--the people who have a sense of dignity and self-respect.
Now, the question remains, do you have established boundaries in you life? And if you don't I suggest that you put some in place!!!